Islam is a religion of fitrah, meaning that Islam provides guidance that is always in line with human nature. In Islam, marriage is a natural and very human way of life. Therefore, when there were some companions of the Prophet who intended to carry out several activities which were not in line with human nature, the Prophet (SAS) rebuked them by stating that he too was married.
(النكاح سنتي فمن رغب عن سنتي فليس مني ( رواه البخاري ومسلم
“Marriage is one of my sunnah (my way of life). So who is not happy with my way of life (want to curb her sexual drive so that she does not channel it through a legitimate marriage, or intends to fulfill sexual desire without marriage), then he is not from my ummah . ”(Narrated by Bukhari and Muslim)
Prophet Muhammad SAW when marrying his daughter Sayyidatina Fathimah with Sayyidina Ali bin Abi Talib, gave marriage messages through his brief sermon. has a broad meaning: Here is the text of the Prophet SAW's sermon about marriage n;
الحمد لله المحمود بنعمته, المعبود بقدرته, المطاع بسلطانه, المرهوب من عذابه وسطواته النافذ أمره في سمائه وأرضه, الذي خلق الخلق بقدرته, وميزهم بأحكامه وأعزهم بدينه, وأكرمهم بنبيه محمد (صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم), إن الله تبارك اسمه, وتعالت عظمته, جعل المصاهرة سببا لاحقا, وأمرا مفترضا أوشج به الأرحام, وألزم الأنام, فقال عز من قائل: (وهو الذي خلق من الماء بشرا فجعله نسبا وصهرا وكان ربك قديرا) فأمر الله تعالى يجري إلى قضائه, وقضاؤه يجري إلى قدره, ولكل قضاء قدر ، ولكل قدر أجل ولكل أجل كتاب: (يمحو الله ما يشاء ويثبت وعنده أم الكتاب).
“All praise be to Allah who is praised with all His blessings, who are worshiped by His provisions, who are obeyed by His power, who are feared by His doom and power, whose matter covers His heaven and earth, which creates beings with His destiny, who privileged His creatures with His law, who glorified them with His religion, who made them noble with His Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
“Indeed Allah, His name is Noble, Supreme and Supreme. He has made mushaharah (family relations due to marriage) as the cause of the successor of the human generation, a case that is the cause of connecting families and successors of the human generation.
“Allah the Most Glorious His word states:” He who created mankind from water then made mankind have offspring and mushaharah, and your God is Almighty. “(Al-Furqan: 54). The case of Allah Almighty applies in His provisions, His provisions apply in His destiny, every provision has a destiny, every destiny has a death, and every death has a book, “Allah removes what is desired and determines (what is desired), on the side He has the Book of Ummah. “(Ar-Ra'd: 39).”
In the short sermon, the Prophet reminded us all about the power of Allah SWT. The power of Allah SWT which is so broad and includes all aspects, including the matter of choosing a prospective life companion, the permanence of a marriage, even His power makes people who have never known and met become love and love each other.
Nothing happened in this world, which escapes the power and determination of Allah SWT. Even so, at the end of his sermon, the Messenger of Allāh W reminded us that the decree of Allah SWT could change because of His mercy.
Therefore Allah SWT will change His provisions, if there is seriousness in praying after the maximum effort that has not yet given birth coveted results, including in the matter of finding a life companion. Therefore, everyone is required to pray to Allah SWT.
Because marriage is the way of life of the Prophet Muhammad ( the Sunnah of the Apostle ), and also a human nature. Therefore, hurry up for those who have found the ribs. If our ribs have not yet been found, pray to Allah SWT while trying to get what we long for. Because Allah SWT is the ultimate thing that turns the heart backward.
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